Fox News host Jesse Watters is under fire for listing a set of “rules for men” that critics say reflect insecurity rather than masculinity. His comments on avoiding soup, straws, and even specific ways of waving have sparked widespread debate online. Find out why his take on masculinity has drawn so much backlash.

Jesse Watters’ ‘Rules for Men’ Ignite Controversy

Jesse Watters, a well-known Fox News host, recently sparked controversy with his list of so-called “rules for men.” During an episode of The Five, Watters laid out several specific behaviors that he believes men should avoid to maintain their masculinity. These included not drinking from straws, avoiding soup in public, and refraining from crossing their legs. His statements, which he insisted were meant to be humorous, quickly ignited a wave of criticism on social media.

One of the most ridiculed points on Watters’ list was his assertion that men should not drink milkshakes because they are “for kids.” He also argued that men should never wave with both hands at the same time, as he deemed it unmanly. While some of his supporters defended his remarks as lighthearted banter, many others saw them as reinforcing outdated and arbitrary gender norms.

Social Media Reaction: Backlash and Mockery

Following Watters’ segment, social media erupted with reactions from both critics and supporters. Many users took to platforms like X (formerly Twitter) to poke fun at the host’s remarks.

One commenter sarcastically wrote, “The insecurity LMAO. Just drink the milkshake, Jesse. Nobody cares.” Another added, “Watters’ masculinity is so fragile, even a milkshake threatens it. Maybe he should focus less on straws and more on growing a spine.”

The backlash intensified when an image of Watters himself drinking from a straw resurfaced online, further fueling the criticism. Many people pointed out the irony of his statements, given that even former President Donald Trump—whom Watters often supports—has been photographed drinking from a straw. This contradiction led to further mockery, with some arguing that his statements had less to do with masculinity and more to do with his personal insecurities.

The Bigger Debate: Toxic Masculinity or Harmless Banter?

While some dismissed the controversy as overblown, others saw Watters’ comments as an example of toxic masculinity—a set of cultural expectations that discourage men from expressing themselves freely or engaging in behaviors deemed “too feminine.” Many critics argued that defining masculinity based on something as trivial as soup or milkshakes sends the wrong message, particularly to young men who may feel pressured to conform to outdated stereotypes.

On the other hand, Watters’ supporters claim that his remarks were never meant to be taken seriously. They argue that he was simply engaging in playful banter and that the outrage is an overreaction. Some conservative commentators defended his stance, suggesting that traditional masculinity is under attack in modern society.

Minnesota Governor Tim Walz, whose masculinity Watters had mocked earlier in the week, also weighed in on the discussion. Walz had previously joked on This is Gavin Newsom podcast that MAGA supporters seemed obsessed with his masculinity, claiming they were “scared” because he could fix a truck. His remarks appeared to trigger Watters, leading to his now-infamous “rules for men.”

The Fine Line Between Humor and Stereotypes

The backlash against Jesse Watters highlights the ongoing cultural debate about masculinity and gender norms. While some view his list as a lighthearted joke, others see it as a reflection of deeper insecurities and societal pressures placed on men.

At the end of the day, the question remains: Should masculinity be defined by superficial rules, or should men be free to enjoy milkshakes, cross their legs, and wave however they want? What do you think? Share your thoughts below and join the conversation!