My sister thought it would be funny make fun of my infertility because she is the only one to give grandchildren to the family, but he was not amused that talk about his need to sleep with other men to get it. my Sister, this Ephesian, 30 years old, told me humiliated him at his welcome party Baby, telling everyone that I was infertile.

Not that it technically is, but she interpreted it that way. I have not I was able to conceive and I have already started assimilate, even if it hurts. It was supposed to This was a secret, since both we made a pact. We both decided share something very private between us, but his secret was a bit harder to digest, let’s say, and that created tension, which led to what he did and obviously to the part of my revenge.
She’s my older sister so I thought that I could trust her. I’m only 3 years younger, so there is not much age difference between us. We We got married two years apart and we started planning our family more or less at the same time. I was surprised quite enough to see her in the doctor’s office doctor because I had no idea that I would have been having trouble conceive It was pure luck that the two we ended up with the same doctor same time.

She was alone, but my husband was with me. We don’t talk much with the doctors, but we did have a conversation when returning home. She told me said she and her husband Conor, 31, they had been having trouble get pregnant They weren’t sure that it was going wrong, so my sister secretly decided to become tests to see if I had problems.
Meanwhile, my husband, 29, and I we had been having problems for a while, so we decided together to see if we had any problem. I didn’t ask for details sister because I knew it was a topic sensitive. Later I discovered that I I had trouble conceiving. It could be say that I am infertile, but there is still a little hope.

It took the doctor It took a while to figure out what was wrong. Of anyway, it was a diagnosis devastating for me. It was difficult for me to accept this because I really wanted children own. My husband has been very understanding and kept me from turning crazy I never told anyone about me diagnosis because she was upset about and it’s not something I feel about comfortable speaking.
During this time, my sister got pregnant so I assumed that everything was fine with them and despite of my own diagnosis, I was very happy with my sister’s pregnancy. No I am one of those crazy women who don’t They support pregnant women for their problems. I was genuinely happy to that my sister didn’t have to go through what I went through.
Also, having a nephew It sounded really exciting. It is not what same as one’s own son, but he planned love him with all my being. They were all happy, so I didn’t bring up or talk about my own fertility struggles with nobody. It wasn’t until the day before my sister’s baby shower I told someone about my diagnosis. I was at her house helping her with the preparations when suddenly it began to wonder about my own plans pregnancy.

we had a conversation quite emotional, so I finished telling them about my problems. and him I made a promise not to tell anyone until I was ready. my sister He must have acted because of his hormones or he became too emotional because it ended telling me a secret of his. Until that moment, everything was going well.
we were two sisters going through life together, less until she told me her secret, which involved other people. He said he went to the doctors without consult conor and discovered that he had no no problem at all. so assumed that Conor was the one who had problems. I was afraid that It will cause a rift in your marriage.

So that instead of trying to talk to Conor in this regard, decided to sleep with another person and get pregnant. The plan worked and this is how it turned out pregnant. My sister cried while He told me this. He said that like Conor tests were never done, there is still the possibility that he is the father.
she is choosing to believe that Conor is the baby’s real father. It has not been told no one and begged me to kept secret. I was like short circuiting inside because my secret was light in comparison of hers. I mean, it was a secret. which mainly affected me and my husband, but he already knew. In Instead, his secret was wrong in so many ways.

levels that exhaust me to say. my first instinct was to ask him to tell his husband It wasn’t fair to him or him. baby. It wasn’t fair to the guy with the one who went to bed. It deserves to know if it is the father. She said that eventually would do, but now the baby shower was for good, the baby and that news so I could ruin it.
I don’t think you are parties are precisely for the baby,but he asked me to give him time to tell him. I told him I wouldn’t say anything if she did it, but she had at most one week to tell Conor. I think That didn’t sit well with him or he thought better of it. then being alone, because basically then he did what he did.

up to date Next I did everything I could to keep face straight while attending to my sister’s party. I was really uncomfortable with what there was discovered, especially because Conor He looked so happy and excited, and I I was there keeping that secret like a time bomb ready to explode. I had many mixed feelings and emotions, the ticking inside me.
I was desperately praying that end the day and let my sister would count. Since this is the first grandchild For my parents, they shined in the my sister’s party me too I contributed a significant amount of money so that my sister could have the party she wanted. conor It’s loaded, but my parents and I We wanted to be the ones to pay for it, like a family gift or something.

with As the minutes passed I told myself that everything would be fine, that my sister I would eventually do the right thing and I relaxed a little. So my sister She started showing off her pregnancy and doing really hurtful comments about have the first grandchild. To make things worse things, he started laughing and telling everyone that the pregnancy is going to be extra-special, because she is the only one who will be able to give grandchildren to my parents.
continued laughing saying that I should feel relief from not feeling the pressure of having children because of my infertility. I can’t tell them the exact words you used because I was already disconnecting from shock. I just remember that my sister was the only person in the room laughing, because neither Conor nor other guests they were doing.

Not even my parents They found it funny. This is where I think she didn’t like me very well. ultimatum, but in my defense it is right to do. These lies late or sooner they come to light and I hate being caught in the middle of this. Furthermore, I was giving the benefit to my sister If she were the one who gave this news, no just so it’s not worse than it is, but to do something good after everything.
And instead of seeing it as something well, he saw me as the enemy he I had to attack because I was cornering But ultimately, my sister should have caught the indirect and shut up. But it continued laughing and told Conor it was just for the jokes and that it was a thought funny He even had the audacity to turn to me and say that I should having understood what he meant.

It is At this point I lost control. I said that I understood the joke, but there was a in particular that it was not clear to me, maybe if someone explained it to me I could laugh at that one too. And it was because my sister had had sex outside marriage to get pregnant. You I said there must be some grace in that, because at least I’m not so desperate to break my vows marriages to have a child.
I admit that I shouted these things and that I didn’t say them as clearly as I write them now, but if you want the summary without All the babbling, that’s it. all They heard what I said. My sister She turned pale and could not reply. my husband just kept trying to get me out from there. Conor kept asking me and to my sister what was I talking about.
I told him, “Your wife confessed to me that it was unfaithful because she couldn’t get pregnant and he promised to tell you everything after the baby shower But since I gave him a damn ultimatum because I don’t like them infidelities, decided to attack me with my secret, that I have difficulties to get pregnant.
I don’t know what happened later because my husband took me out of there before he had a mental breakdown. I heard screams as I was leaving, but I was in a trance and I don’t know what the people were saying words. I also didn’t know what happened later at the party, although I can imagine it wasn’t so happy. No I checked my phone until the day next because my husband took it from me.
Security measures, he said, which I am grateful because at that moment I was I’m going to sink that one [__] bitch Furthermore, I was afraid that I would get worse if I read the messages my sister and her friends sent me. To clarify, my husband is on my side. He even thinks that giving the ultimatum to me Sister, it was the right thing to do.
not only because someone had to tell him, but because it should have come from me sister. My sister didn’t see it like that and everything I jump like a [__] volcano but there is no nothing to do now. The truth has The light has come out and I am happy. That is to say, that the [___] is under the ground, do not less ago [___] only now it is in the air, in the environment, and that is not It makes my sister smell good.
Well, I know Damn, he didn’t think things through when he slept with a stranger to meetpregnant and didn’t think about it very well when he made fun of me. That [__] psychopath, because another word does not fit, it is I search The next day, when I recovered my phone, I saw about 70 calls loss of my sister and her friends They had my number.
Also like 15 spam, probably them giving me high on any nonsense that is thrown at them happen, that’s how petty they are. my sister also sent me a bunch of texts telling me that their marriage is is falling apart because of me and that it would be my fault if she becomes a mother single and her son loses his father. I sent some more messages calling me anything that comes to mind to my infertility, because she is having biological children while I am not I can.
I also received some messages of my parents telling me that I went too far and I did some serious damage. They said they were ashamed of me and that I needed to immediately apologize with my sister and talking to Conor me they would disinherit This is just a small part of all the messages I have received.
If I received some support from the extended family, who said that my Sister deserved it and what did I do? good in exposing it, but my own family is attacking me verbally and threatening me. I can do it from my sister wait. He’s sick in the head. what he did has no explanation. should be in a zoo to be examined. Now my parents, seeing this as something Well, that’s what surprises me the most.
Until now they had not shown favoritism, but this is undoubtedly one and also one very serious, because they are endorsing a inexplicable behavior. Edit, I see many comments on my post. I feel no be able to respond to everyone individually. you have been to me asking why he hadn’t told Conor on my sister’s infidelity immediately.
As I said before, no It was my place to do it. I would have done it eventually if my sister didn’t do it and in the end I did it. But the right thing is that the person who did it from one step to the Up front and be honest. Furthermore, when a third gets into these topics without tests, it can get quite messy. She could have argued that I I was lying for whatever reason.
one of my theories is that my sister is not so silly after all. I wanted to use my infertility problems as an excuse for that I am unstable, that I am jealous of her and that I would make all this up. But at the same time, if you have played that letter and it didn’t work, I’m sure that Conor already had his suspicions.
If you I told my husband, he was also praying to God that the child turned out to be Conor’s, not so that the marriage would continue, but so that at unless he had his son. I knew what important was the news of the my sister’s pregnancy for him. some of you had questions about whether my sister is the golden daughter because my Parents are on your side instead of mine. Honestly, I don’t know.
I don’t have stories to tell you about our childhood where they put my sister ahead. That’s why I feel so out out of place with all this. If it is probable that there is a history of infidelity between my parents, it already happens so much in this family that doesn’t surprise me at all. If my parents come to tell me who they are aliens posing as humans, I think I will say, it has not been for so much. Update one.
It’s two days exact since my post, so I think I have enough votes to see what people have to say about this. Conor is the one who suffered the most. I agree that humiliation public probably made things worse for him. I have not had the courage to talk to Conor about this. He neither He has said nothing and I don’t know if he wants to talk with me.
My sister does have a lot to do talk to me, but I don’t want to. Follow saying that he is extremely angry with her and is having second thoughts their marriage. Normal, I don’t know what I expected. He also said that he is not talking and is sleeping in a separate room. I no longer have absolutely no sympathy for me sister, but I do feel bad for Conor.
Many of you who called me idiot here they told me I should be apologizing to Conor for humiliating him publicly. I am completely I agree with you wholeheartedly. I have also talked about this with my husband. and he agrees that he should give Conor an apology. so I plan to write a sincere message from me part apologizing for making public things that way.
I am also willing to apologize person, because something sounds through the message impersonal and does not have the same validity. I don’t think he forgives me, but that’s what right to do. As for me sister, I think our relationship is fine it could have ended. Why lie? It’s over and that’s it.
All that remains is to declare the dead and that’s all. The one of my parents is in a coma, but I don’t think heThere won’t be much left after this either. Some thought that what happened to my parents was not It’s a big deal, but I don’t see it that way absolute. Defend someone who slept with another to get pregnant It’s very twisted.
You haven’t done it, but it doesn’t make it any less bad. It’s like that defend a serial killer. you haven’t you committed the crimes, but if you opinion is that it is not so bad after everything, there’s not much to think about either. They remain on his side. They have not had a moment of lucidity or realizing how much They have screwed up.
It’s not even what my sister told me, but the whole situation that has become really very bad And leaving aside my parents and to the group of my sole-licking friends Sister, I think the whole world is I agree that what he did is too bad. There is not even a adjective to describe what he did. Nor hell must love people like my sister The mini novelty that I have in only two days is that my grandmother, who She was on a cruise with friends and lost the party because my sister did the welcome party exactly in that date, which is quite a story
apart, he returned and discovered what she did. His reaction was basically did that and then say some things very pretty from my parents defend her, plus many others about me sister. nice things as long as be a drunken sailor, having a heated discussion. My grandmother didn’t like there was a lot left to be on the side opposite of my sister.
They have their problems and this has been like the [___] that was missing. I think he said something about disinherit my parents, but can have been the heat of the moment. Words from my grandmother. I prefer to spend my money on cruises in the Bahamas full of muscular men to leave him the money to those idiots.
Of course men musclemen and idiots have been changed by euphemism because the grandmother I like to speak a little colloquially. Update two. some of you They asked for an update, so I returned to make one. I don’t know how feel for the fact that some of you find this entertaining storm of filth. However, given who have been so helpful to me, I think I owe them at least some updates.
I mustered up the courage to send Conor an apology for what I did at the party and I made it sound like an apology to him and definitely not an apology to my sister. so I wrote a long text and sent it to Conor and I asked for his forgiveness. Surprisingly he called me instead just reply to my text. It seems that he has no bad feelings towards me. He said he understood why I didn’t tell him.
the truth immediately. He also said that doesn’t care about public revelation because it saved him from having to tell everything that happened and what if someone I should be ashamed of what happened She is my sister, because she is a true lady with low instincts. I think has also been meeting with the Grandma, why are they putting it on me? hard to censor the words and that Don’t delete my account.
Honestly, he has no bad feelings towards me because he has imagined himself in my shoes and also understands that I did not want humiliate him. Conor also shared his current situation and your plans for me sister. The two keep fighting because my sister refuses to give details about who the adventure partner is. As I suspected earlier, he already had his own suspicions and infidelity It wasn’t just one night.
Have you tried get pregnant right and left sinister She is telling him that You can just forget what I said and accept that the child is yours without giving names. She doesn’t want to make it more real for him. Conor is not accepting that logic. Nor are they the words that he used. And hey, I’ve used [__] in my posts, but it gives me a little Heat repeat the exact words.
He has requested a paternity test prenatal, but are willing to wait until the baby is born. However, it has refused to pay anything from her and the child. My sister, of course, think they can just get over this and fix things. Even tried to make him Gasling, saying that He was only unfaithful because of his relationship problems.
fertility and that I would not have done it if He could have gotten her pregnant. I don’t know how can anyone think what to say to the person you cheated on that will make you accept again. That brain should be dissected and then analyzed. my sister has to be exceptional stupid to say that to his face. Nor Even I was stupid enough to mention Conor’s infertility in front of everyone.
Conor has been devastated since he found out so many things at the same time. You are receiving support total of his family, but he has been having trouble dealing with me sister and with my parents. And yes, my parents are pressuring him to accept my sister again, as ifThey were used car salesmen of low reputation.
leaks oil, pollutes more than necessary, leaves you lying in the middle of the road and not The air conditioning works, but it You better take it home for a modest price. My parents are on top from him to simply raise the child like it’s theirs and they’ve been saying that no proof is needed paternity because he has been the father throughout this pregnancy.
He is not open to raising a child from a adventure just because you can’t have children. A child of an adventure is not a consolation prize for his infertility. I really sympathize with him Because I understand how you feel. Adopt to someone unknown or even in vitro fertilization and surrogacy are very different from raising a child of a adventure.
The child may be innocent, but it will be a constant reminder of my sister’s betrayal. Furthermore, the things would get very complicated in the future when my nephew grows up and asks answers. Speaking of my family, I blocked my sister and had a chat with my parents. I decided to go to his house and talk about things face to face Let there be no doubt that I speak in serious. I just told them to keep going.
go ahead and they will disinherit me because I am not going to apologize to my sister or fix things for her. They also I said I don’t need to have someone in my life such disastrous people. My parents, for Of course, they called me names and everything, but I left practically after that.
Everyone is locked in this moment, except Conor. my in-laws have also been informed about my fertility struggles because I didn’t see the sense of keeping it secret. It is ironic that they were more supportive than my parents ever, so I think I’ll be fine. I’m not going to lie, but It sucks so much that my own family don’t like it or care, but I can’t let that stop me.
Now, the elephant in the room. My grandmother. It seems that she has stolen many hearts among the editors and it seems who want more mentions. my grandmother is my father’s mother and her husband He passed away a few years ago. But if today If they were alive, they would be having coffee hot sitting in your backyard through a competition to see who has the most creative insults for my parents and my sister.
believe me that I heard some very funny things from her at my meeting to catch up. We talked about my problems conceiving and he gave me his theory of what happens with my parents. She thinks my father was deceived by my mother, as it seems to be a little feminine for my taste grandmother. Again, euphemisms, because my grandma is a bit traditional and use other words to refer to your son, which unlocked a new fear here that I am not my father’s daughter.
It is not because I feel proud to be a daughter from my father either, but it is a new fear. Update three. I’m sorry that many people have been wrong about regarding my parents. Technically, still no, but that’s not the reason why They defend my sister and not me in this moment. I had my suspicions too that there could have been an issue of infidelity between my parents, but that is not the case.
My aunt, who has been extremely supportive of me during all this disaster, had a conversation with me and connected some points. She assured me that whatever happens come on, a lot of people in my family agree my side and my parents are worms eaters of [___] Again, I don’t know what It happens in this family, but it was mentioned to the male member instead of [__] He didn’t say worms either, he said vacuum cleaner.
Basically I was supposed to be a boy, that’s what my sister is to have I mean, my parents They wanted a second child who would be a child. They were so confident that they didn’t even They didn’t even try to find out my gender. before birth. They had too much afraid to check if I was really a child They just kept buying.
things as a child and they thought that they would manifest a son would give them one. Even They convinced my sister that I was going to be a child. Naturally, everyone They were disappointed when I was born a woman. They were so disappointed that they never They tried to have another child. Now you and I know why my parents and me sister are this way.
They have never been openly hostile to me during all this time. But if they you have to choose between a grandson and a daughter that let them down, you know what They will choose any day of the week. There was a brief respite in the eruptions by [___] My sister still refused to take a paternity test that Conor threatened to divorce her and take her to court.
so after my nephew was born, my sister reluctantly agreed to one. Conor, he’s not the father. Immediately consulted a lawyer and requested the divorce. He was going to divorce everyone shapes with her. I just wantedagreed to take the test at once and end all this. Case Otherwise, I should have waited for a judge’s order and anxiety I was eating inside.
my sister she felt betrayed because she was completely convinced that Conor I would come to love my nephew and I would forgive. I think my parents and their friends also sold her this idea, which is why it became so delusional When Conor requested the divorce and made it clear that for him she It was the [___] with the worst smell, those were were his words.
my sister he absolutely lost it. She went to the my parents house and stayed there while begging Conor to give him a second chance. my parents and His friends also continued to harass him. until he threatened to sue them all for harassment. Currently, Conor and the divorce are in process. It’s going to take a little, but it will happen.
While this was happening, my parents They showed up at my house and demanded that I will help raise my sister’s son, because somehow it’s my fault what is happening. I didn’t even have I have to make an answer because my husband he yelled at them and almost scared them. And it wasn’t with a Halloween costume, but with a baseball bat He said that that gave better results than threatening call the police.
My husband would be unable to hit them, but that’s my parents didn’t know. Then I heard from me aunt that my parents are asking you money to family members because my sister has no plans get a job. She has been living as a housewife for a while and apparently he doesn’t want to leave his son and go to work. so basically expects my parents to pay for everything.
My parents are not rich, no They have unlimited income, so are seeking financial help from the family. The unison response has been, we are not a bank looking for a I work like the rest of us. My parents also contacted me from an unknown number and They asked for a little help because they were having difficulties. They also said who were willing to listen to me version again and maybe talk about the things.
I cut, I blocked and I would have I wanted to have the creativity of me grandmother. Of course they want to talk things again when they need money. There you have your child. Go take care of that. I feel sorry for him, but he’s not my responsibility. My parents wanted one and they sold their soul to [__] for get it. It’s sad that I can’t be in my nephew’s life.
I was really looking forward to having one, but some things are not meant to be be. I hope that one day, when my nephew is older, he understands my perspective and want to have a relationship with me. For now, it is unlikely that ever meet him. My grandmother is Happy for Conor. Wait for a divorce to my sister and left her penniless.
Our state has fault divorce and there is no more guilt than a proof of negative parenting. With that he hopes to leave with all his money, his house and without paying no type of pension. I think my sister is asking for pension food, but they are just his delusions speaking.
Nobody is going to grant you one, that’s for sure. Update four. I feel like this update will be like one of those movies that they create for give an end to a series, since in instead of making two extra chapters They decide to launch one because I feel that It will be a little long, or at least that’s it It seems in my head.
Maybe I will achieve sum it up quite a bit. Conor got divorced completely and my sister argued that the paternity test he did previously it was not admissible in the trial for divorce and that could be wrong. So the judge ordered another one in one place that my sister had chosen and the results came with the same conclusion. No, that son is not Conor’s.
Worse still, the infidelity had been going on for months and It was not a simple I sleep with another to get pregnant. The version that confessed that day before the party baby was pretty quiet, between quotes. So Conor got the house, that was his before the divorce, his savings and no alimony or conjugal My sister left there with half of the joint accounts, which It was Conor’s money anyway.
because it’s not like she had worked since they got married. I don’t know how unhappy it may have made you this, because I have not spoken with her or with my parents. my sister was living at my parents’ house later that Conor kicked her out. This would come to be the second act of the film. my sister was struggling to get out go ahead and get a better life for she and her son, who was actually look for the guy she was sleeping with.
He was not someone known, but neither He was a complete stranger. So, when he broke the news to him, because for the guy she was drinking contraceptives, lies, and I was not married More lies. For obviousreasons, the guy asked him for proof of paternity and since I had no other way, she accepted. It was the father.
Now she he had a father for his son and perhaps a life partner No, this man alone He wanted to take care of his son, but he couldn’t. have a relationship with a person She went to get pregnant with her lover. I know, something too obvious for the rest of the humanity. Let’s say my sister is not of people who take very well negative news.
is a person narcissistic, just a little, and does not accept the criticism. started doing things erratic, like not letting him see his son if he did not agree to have a relationship with her. which was a complete package and not could choose to simply stay with one. However, the judge granted him the shared emergency custody biological father and my sister had to accept.
In the end, everyone tired The father, the judge, perhaps my parents too. My nephew’s father obtained full custody of him and now there is a modicum of hope that I have a relationship with my nephew, which is good because with my husband We are on the list to adopt, so that we plan to be parents of one or the other form, so we would like the cousins grew up together.
As for me sister, you lost your sanity again again. Details are lost here of its history, but I know that it has been Kicked out of my parents’ house. my Grandma swears her sources are reliable and that my parents lost a lot of money helping my sister in the custody trial and that after the failure she treated them too badly like to tolerate it.
They also lost their grandson because I can’t imagine the father biological by letting them see it. What has been a real movie adventures. A little mystery and even terror. Terror because there were mummies, my parents. Mystery because we still don’t know How my sister’s brain works. And adventure because we had Harrison Ford played by my grandmother or minus a more foul-mouthed version of him.
Only the Johnson rock was missing, but no there was more budget. So unless Let’s meet in Canes or at the delivery of the Oscars, I hope this be the last of my updates. I think I need a bath for a week whole to take away all the [__] of my sister’s rash. Edition. Yes, It wasn’t that long after all.